Preparation is the key to sanity at dinner time. Think about it, you plan your week at work so why not use some of your time management skills on the home front.
When work is done for me time feels like it magically picks up speed, the last thing I want to think about is what I am going to make for a bunch of hungry people.
Make you life easier by doing your “mis en place” before you get to the actual cooking. Mis en place – a french saying for “putting it all in place”.
Do you know why cooking shows make it look so easy? Most of their ingredients are already chopped, diced and prepared ahead of time … borrow a trick form the pros and whenever you have a minute or two prep something for your dinner tonight, tomorrow night or the night after!
- Cut 2 onions instead of 1 – you are already chopping, throw the additional onion in an airtight container it will keep fresh for a few days in the fridge.
- Peppers, carrots, snap peas and other hard veggies will keep well pre cut for a few days in the fridge.
- If you have 5 minutes on your hands put out the ingredients for your dinner that night or the following night (like oil, grains, spices, etc..).
- When you get home form the grocery store throw together a quick marinade in a large freezer bag, toss your protein in and freeze. When you leave for work the morning you want that specific meal let it thaw in the fridge all day, turn it out into a casserole and bake – make a quick salad while your meal is in the oven and voila, dinner in no time (most proteins will bake at 350).
Remember eating together does not mean that everyone has to love what you have made (although that is certainly preferred).
I cannot tell you how many times my family has been loving and not so loving critics. My brother once said “…I am not sure if this is the best or the worst thing I’ve ever tasted”! You can’t win ’em all but the point here is to eat, laugh and experiment together.
A handy formula to help out at dinner time:
Basic vinaigrette
All you need to remember is: 3 parts oil to 1 part vinegar with a few add ins if you would like
(if you find the 3:1 too acidic then move to a 4:1 ratio)
Add in could be:
- salt and cracked pepper
- spices like fresh pressed garlic, paprika, thyme, oregano to name a few
- mustard or worcestershire sauce (start small like 1-2t then add if you want a bigger punch)
- a touch of lemon or lime juice (again start smallish like 2-3t)
- a touch of sweetness like maple syrup, agave nectar or cane sugar
Our favourite house salad dressing:
I use mason jars to make my salad dressings. Add all ingredients and shake, shake, shake. Most home made dressings will last in your fridge in an air tight container (like the mason jar) for about 5 days.
Sweet Maple Mustard Dressing
1/4c apple cider vinegar
1 garlic clove pressed
3T pure maple syrup
3T Dijon mustard
1/2t finely ground sea salt
1/4t cracked pepper
1/2c extra virgin olive oil
Family House Dressing
1/4c apple cider vinegar
1/2c nice oil, extra virgin olive, macadamia nut or flax oil
1 pressed garlic clove (more if you love garlic)
1T pure maple syrup
2T shoyu (which is a slightly more subtle soy sauce you can find in the asian section of your grocery store)
Remember what the goal is … get everyone sitting together at the family dinner table a few times a week
Our definition of a family has changed considerably over the years. Today family is who you have in your heart, who you know has your back, who you can call and invite over for a meal. Family can be defined by genetics or it can be defined by friendship and love. My family may look different than yours, but at the end of the day, if you live in the midst of chaos or by yourself, enjoy your family table with those you care about.
Dinner does not have to be fancy or gourmet to sit down together, it just has to be.
See you at the table!